Day 242 of 280, third trimester
You are 34 weeks and 4 days
Your baby is already practicing the sucking reflex in the uterus, which will let him feed when he's born.
38 days until your due date
The sucking reflex is present earlier in pregnancy, but studies of premature babies show that it's usually only around now that a baby is strong and coordinated enough to suck easily. Your baby practices regularly, and this, together with the rooting reflex, will let him feed.
After birth you'll see the rooting reflex when your baby turns toward anything that strokes his cheek: his head turns and his mouth moves in gradually smaller circles until he finds it. Once feeding is well established, at about four months, the rooting reflex disappears and he has much more control, able to turn and latch straight on to the nipple.
In the uterus, there's no chance of your baby accidentally getting amniotic fluid into his lungs. The lungs are already full of fluid, and its high pressure, together with the larynx, keeps amniotic fluid out. After birth, babies have a series of reflexes that keep breathing and drinking separate, and to help with feeding, they always breathe through the nose.
Ask a Doctor
My mom has offered to stay with us after the birth. Is this a good idea?
Some couples prefer to get to know their baby on their own, using the first few days to settle in and get used to being parents, and it's good to try doing things your own way. That said, an extra pair of hands is invaluable.
It really depends on your relationship with your mom. If it's good and you think she'll be supportive, she's more likely to help than hinder. Gently set some ground rules: you welcome her help, but you'd like to do things your way and have space to bond with your baby. Encourage her to help around the house rather than just with the baby, not least so your partner doesn't feel left out at this important time.
Good to know
Are you ready for the baby?
You may soon be too tired to shop, so buy things gradually, but it's worth having certain items by around 37 weeks in case you go into labor. First, get the small baby-care items you'll need right after the birth, plus a car seat and a Moses basket or crib. You won't need a stroller straight away. If shopping becomes difficult in late pregnancy, consider buying online.
Explainer
Shopping from home
By now you may not feel up to spending hours shopping for baby equipment and clothes. Browsing the major stores' catalogues and websites lets you make early decisions from the comfort of your armchair.
Appointments and key dates around now
- RSV vaccineFrom 28 weeks
Read the full 34 weeks pregnant guide
This is general information based on NHS guidance, not medical advice, and every pregnancy is different. Talk to your midwife or GP about anything that worries you. If your baby's movements slow down or change, or you have bleeding, severe pain or leaking fluid, call your maternity unit straight away. In an emergency, call 999.