Day 78 of 280, first trimester
You are 11 weeks and 1 day
In this last week of the first trimester, you'll probably have your first scan and see your baby for the first time.
202 days until your due date
You and your partner have reached an exciting milestone. You'll have your first ultrasound around now, and seeing your baby may help you feel closer to her. For many men, the scan is when the pregnancy first feels real.
At this scan, your baby's length is measured and used to work out her age. Until about 12 weeks, all babies grow at about the same rate, so whether you and your partner are tall or short, your baby will be the same size as others at this stage.
Working out your due date from the first day of your last period isn't always accurate, especially if your cycle is long or irregular. The dating scan gives a more accurate due date, but it's far from certain, because very few babies arrive on their due date.
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Your first picture
You may be given a printout of your baby. Don't be surprised if you find yourself looking at it again and again! It's also a great way to share the news.
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Dads: It's really happening!
Going to the first scan is exciting for a dad-to-be, but you may feel anxious too. It's normal for both of you to wonder whether the baby is OK and to be desperate to hear that all is well.
The scan may seem technical, since it checks the heartbeat and takes measurements, but it's also very emotional. It's your first look at this new life: you'll see your baby moving, legs kicking and arms waving, even though your partner can't feel it yet.
The biggest shock for many men is being confronted with physical proof that the baby exists. Your partner is probably more used to the idea because she's carrying the baby, but the scan will make it much more real for you, and you may be surprised how emotional you feel.
Appointments and key dates around now
- Booking appointmentUsually between 8 and 12 weeks
- Dating scanBetween 11 and 14 weeks
Read the full 11 weeks pregnant guide
This is general information based on NHS guidance, not medical advice, and every pregnancy is different. Talk to your midwife or GP about anything that worries you. If your baby's movements slow down or change, or you have bleeding, severe pain or leaking fluid, call your maternity unit straight away. In an emergency, call 999.